Swinger Rules Of The Road

The one universal truth that we as a swinger couple have learned from many years of swinging is to tell the truth. And we are always amazed when that doesn't seem to happen. We have been members of several paid swinger sites in which swinger couples write a profile and post their pics. It has become almost commonplace for us to disbelieve the pictures and profiles that many post. It is always a shock when we have arranged to meet a couple in person and their appearance is so much different than their pics they posted.

Honesty is the best policy. When writing a profile, be as clear and honest as possible regarding what you expect and are looking for in another couple. Also, post pictures that are reasonably current. It will make for a more enjoyable first meeting if both couples have been honest in their profiles and the pictures of themselves. Needless to say, pictures that are ten or twenty years old are not acceptable.

Another issue that has arisen in some of our swinging experiences has been when one partner is actually not interested in swinging but has been "pushed" by his or her partner to give it a try. Bad idea. Never ever assume that your partner will be receptive once things start. We have had a few experiences that were pretty awful due to the fact that one of the partners was not interested in swinging. In our experience, it is usually the male half that is attempting to push his partner or spouse to swing.