Breaking The Ice

Have you experienced an offline meeting where all involved sat around for hours making idle conversation while looking around the room and at each other wondering who will be brave enough to make the first move? Geeezzzz, that can be so awkward. Hopefully, there will be at least one person who will take the initative to make the first sexual contact. But, if not, here is your chance to be more informed and assume the role of that one person. In a couple swapping situation, try sexually arousing your partner first. Get the "ball rolling" comfortably with your own partner and once all involved are sexually aroused, then swap partners. This is much easier. Of course playing strip poker or strip uno works well also. Many women, ecpecially the shy ones, do not like sitting around, playing cards and getting naked. It helps to initially be aroused. a female joining a couple may want to simply watch them at first before becoming involved. The same scenario is adequate for a male joining a couple. Whatever ia agreed upon by all involved is the best way to proceed.
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Cuckolds And Swingers

Cuckolding is a minor part of the swinging lifestyle but this niche seems to be increasing. It also seems to involve more interracial activity. Here is info regarding this niche:

WHAT IS A CUCKOLD?

The word "cuckold" probably comes from the practice of the cuckoo bird. The female cuckoo mates with an alpha-male, who then moves on to encounters with other females. The female then returns to her mate, and the two of them raise the babies which resulted from mom's "night on the town."

Traditionally, a (human) cuckold was the object of scorn and derision; when it was discovered that a man's wife had found fulfillment in another man's bed, she was an adulteress and he was her cuckold. It was often said that he "left with his tail between another man's legs."

The dictionary defines a cuckold as "a man with an unfaithful wife."

In the context of alternative lifestyles, the cuckold occupies a position somewhere between the traditional definition and that of "swingers." The difference with the first definition is that today's cuckold is both aware of his wife's "infidelity" and is sexually excited by it; the difference with the second definition is that "swingers" are mutually involved, or at least approach the sex bed as equals, which is not the case with a cuckold.

In plain English, a cuckold is a man who stands by and accepts his wife's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions. He may have normal sexual relations with his wife part of the time, or he may accept that his wife has chosen another man to replace him completely in her sexual bed.

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